Married post break up
Almost every “unavailable” boyfriend I’ve had marries the girl right after me. Today I learned that my ex boyfriend got engaged to a woman he’s only been dating for four months. They’re getting married in October. That will make him the sixth one of my ex’s to get married post our break up. I wouldn’t choose any of my ex’s today, I wouldn’t. But, that doesn’t take away from what comes up for me upon hearing the news. I’m happy for them, and after all is said and done, I wouldn’t change a thing. I believe the Universe is always sorting. This is another opportunity to get clear on what I want. I say I would love nothing more than to find a partner, get married and have an extraordinary relationship. Begs me to ask, am I available?
August 25th, 2008 at 4:03 pm
Michelle,
I can pretty much relate to this article, except with me, the good ones always seem to get engaged and married, or just taken. This is a very interesting blog, though.
September 15th, 2008 at 9:17 pm
Hi Michelle!
I came across your blog—I am sorry to be a coward by posting anonymously. I don't know you well but we have had a few short conversations. I feel compelled to say, with the greatest respect and admiration, that you are absolutely gorgeous. You are one of most beautiful women I have met in my entire life. Any man would be a fool to not propose to you.
March 2nd, 2009 at 9:16 pm
Michelle,
What a facinating effect you have had on those men. Sounds like you forced them all to look at themselves deeply and make major decisions in their lives. Not many women have that ability. We have never met, but I can tell you that the only women that I know that could force that kind of behavioral change in a man are stunningly beautiful, charismatic and very intelligent. Breaking up with a woman that has these seemingly perfect qualities always forces a man to look at himself and ask why he would do such a thing.
Now if you broke up with them, that is something completely different. In that case, you probably wounded them in a way that they are looking for someone to console and nurture them. You drove them into the arms of someone that fits that discription and hopefully appreciates them more than you did.
Either way, you have done a good thing. You should be a therapist, . . . or better yet, have your own talk show.
Roman